bits & bobs_01
May 11, 2026
May 11, 2026
Hi 👋🏼 I'm Graham. I'm creating artifacts at the intersection of meaning and technology. Mostly, they are gifts for people I love. Over the last 4 years, I have worn many hats in the startup world, but am ever drawn to beauty and learning. Writing is part of my journey of sense-making.
The bits & bobs below are an assortment of things I'm bumping into in my personal life. You'll have to forgive any typos, I try to relieve myself of editing here.
I also write deeper reflections in response to wrestling with big stories, and host conversations about technology and vocation.
Thanks for stopping by, I hope you stay a while!
I just inherited my Dad's 4Runner. It's sentimental in many ways, we've shared lots of memories car camping and four-wheeling and road-tripping across New Mexico and Colorado. It also holds memories of us finding secret places to park for Texas Tech basketball games and commuting around my hometown. The hunk of metal is quintessentially Todd Cepica as far as I'm concerned.
Now I'm driving it around Fort Worth, and we will soon take it to Atlanta. It still is very much associated with my Dad. As I labor to flip the switch in my mind, I choose to think about the vehicle as a symbol -- a symbol of the man that is a father to my brother and I, a symbol of the husband to my Mother, a symbol of the son to my Grandfather.
Every year I see life from a different perspective. The past couple years, especially as I've become a husband, I've been seeing myself in light of my upbringing - particularly reminiscent of the men that have come before me. Each one has invested in a vehicle for their family to journey forth in, each one has been a recipient of something, however meager, however practical, however literal.
The 4Runner is still very much my Dad's, and it always will be, just as I will always be his son. It's also my 4Runner, ready for more camping, more four-wheeling, more road trips and basketball games. These things have been co-existing in my brain as I drive around town, and I'm reminded that I stand on the shoulders of my Father.
In Praise of old stories, Grapes of Wrath has finally turned a corner. So far, it has been as grueling as migrating across the American West in 1850 - crammed into a backseat next to members of the Joad family, equally as confused about where we are going, when we are going to get there, and why we left in the first place. I think this was intentional?
As the fates would have it, this turning point converged with the not-so-old story called Interstellar. Re-watching the 2014 film with family in Oregon shed light on the fact that the entire intergalactic space mission was to escape a blight causing global famine. Society had regressed from a time where an MRI scan could have saved Cooper's wife from cancer, according to his rebuttal as the school Principal told him his son was destined to be a farmer.
Both journeys begin with a forced migration, from scarcity to the vast unknown. I have not finished Grapes of Wrath - currently the Joad family is encountering countless other pioneers that have migrated to California under false pretenses. Will they be as industrious as Cooper when he learned they were sent on their world-saving mission under false pretenses? Will the Joad family return to home as a failure, discover a new home on an alien planet, or die trying?
Either way, I'm walking the earth between Grapes of Wrath and Interstellar with as much comfort and luxury as civilized man has ever known. Not only with MRIs to detect cancer, but with Artificial Intelligence that might cure it, drones that make clouds rain, and food from around the world about 12 minutes down the road. I'm walking the earth with old stories and new stories inside me, with the pre-internet Joads and the post-MRI Coopers, trying to be mindful of the things that matter in times of scarcity and times of abundance. I'm no scholar, but the contradictions of the Sermon on the Mount seem to have a place in this conversation.
In order to write well, you must live well. The collection of quotes below remind me that creativity never exists in a vacuum. Nor does it exist in a work-from-home office or the exclusivity of a study, or the isolation of remote work.
Most good writing happens beyond the page. Gathering experiences, observing the world, letting ideas take shape. By the time you sit down to write, you’ve already lived through the material. Even if the exact words have yet to come.
Depending on the type of writer you are, reading is also critical. Being social and engaging with others is important. So is solitude and quiet reflection while engaging with ideas.
“Write about what really interests you, whether it is real things or imaginary things, and nothing else. (Notice this means that if you are interested only in writing you will never be a writer, because you will have nothing to write about…).” -- C.S. Lewis
More importantly, the whole point of even writing an essay is to attempt to make sense of something that matters to you. This means truth-seeking is baked into the process, and the reader is invited to join in the sensemaking.
The essay is unique, compared to the article, because it packages insight into a scale you can relate to. It’s less about the facts and stats; more about ideas you can transpose into your own life and try out.
“Experiences become shareable creations the way tree sap becomes maple syrup. It takes 50 gallons of sap to make one gallon of syrup. So whenever I feel like I don’t have enough ideas to create something meaningful, I go collect more experiences and spend time processing them by writing and talking to friends."
Even full-time writers spend the majority of their time away from their computer. You don’t log 40 hours a week typing away at your keyboard. Doing so would leave you with nothing of substance to say.
Seinfeld says that becoming a good standup comic requires you to live life, pay attention to your surroundings, have lots of experiences, and speak with interesting people. Then you take all of this material and convert it into art. Seinfeld goes on to say “This is a writer’s game. If you can write, you succeed. If you can’t, you will not make it. The performing, being funny onstage, that’s great. Any comedian can be funny onstage. But the bullets are the writing.
Jerry Seinfeld again: "Chris Rock is the smartest person, maybe, I’ve ever met…I was with Chris a couple of weeks ago, and he was talking about a young comic. He was asking the comedian about what he did that day. And the guy said, “Nothing. But I’m going to do a set tonight.” And Chris explained to him, “You make money during the day. You collect it at night. During the day is where the money is made.”
Collected from Hendrik Karlsson, Rob Henderson, C.S. Lewis
If you peeped the rebrand of this here publication, read my latest post, or for some reason stumbled across grahamcepica.com/meansandmeaning - you'll notice I'm trying to narrow my voice to technology and vocation and have thoughtful conversations with real people. It's less exploratory and apologetic... more bold and convicted. I really believe in the ideas, however infant or abstract they may seem. I think it has potential to be a gift for someone. Especially in light of the quotes above.
In the spirit of getting "out there," my wife and I took a trip to Oregon to see some of her side of the family. The time with people was just as beautiful as the nature, and the nature was breathtaking.
I talk A LOT about how easy it is to build stuff on LinkedIn... I am helping create a YouTube channel about how to use "No Code" tools... and I'm hosting a podcast about what this agency means for us as humans... All of which can be summed up into my favorite question:
"Cool, now what?"
Technological agency looks different for a business than it does for a young professional than it does for a farmer than it does for a teacher — but for my wife, it looks like a gift. Together, we spun up a website on Claude Code, hand-drew a logo on my SuperNote, and created an entire brand style guide based on a questionnaire for her Mom as she looks to start her own practice as a Doula. The dream has been years in the making, and it materialized in just a few weekends.
Here's us reading the testimonials from her past clients, presenting the designs, and clicking through the site…
Digital gift giving has been one of my favorite things to do lately. Especially when I see the engagement around Shepherds Honey. It's not hard to do, and giving someone a platform to share what they are passionate about is one of my love languages.